There has been a lot of stuff floating around my head lately related to dating. I have often posted those things on my original flavor blog, but I decided to start a separate blog devoted solely to the topic. The main reason for doing this is that I can write about it here all I want & if it's not a particular topic that interests you, you can just stick to the regular ole blog & pretend this one doesn't exist. Though, it does exist and too much denial is unhealthy, so be careful. In an effort to make this first post on the date-a-blog somewhat related to the topic, here's a great quote from Gilmore Girls that I'm pretty sure more guys need to hear. This is from a scene where Luke is listening to some relationship self-help tapes. Yes, it's a bit cheesy, but I really wonder what would happen if guys would seriously ask themselves these things . . .

Whose phone calls or visits are never unwanted or too long? Do you see her face? Who would you most like to have in your life to ward off moments of loneliness? Do you see her face? When you travel, who would make your travels more enjoyable? Do you see her face? When you're in pain, who would you most like to comfort you? Do you see her face? When something wonderful happens in your life -- a promotion at work, a successful refinancing -- who do you want to share the news with? Do you see her face? Whose face appears to you, my friend? Whose face?